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Tuesday, June 10, 2008

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Monday, June 02, 2008

Five Minutes Only!!!

I've been very pissimist before but i thank God for the change, Changes has so many ways the most important is the inward w/c some people couldn't understand let's have an insight of this.

We tend to view life horizontally rather than vertically. We tend to be resistant rather than open to that which is new and unexpected. We need some course-correction techniques to break those habits! We can think of at least three that might work for us: Recognize and admit our negative mentality. So much of the cure is in the confession. Immediate correction begins with honest admission. Force a vertical focus until it begins to flow freely.We have never seen a habit just lie down, surrender, and die; we have to make a conscious effort if we hope to break longstanding habits. If we are negative today, chances are very good that when we wake up tomorrow morning we're still going to be negative. Force a vertical focus. Stay open to a new idea for at least five minutes. Don't try it for an entire day; we might panic. Just take on our day five minutes at a time.

When something new, something unexpected, confronts us, don't respond with an immediate "Nope! Never!" Wait five minutes. Hold off. Tolerate the possibility for five minutes. We will be surprised at the benefit of remaining open.

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